Actually it does rise to the same level. Its exactly the same. Hypocrisy is the same regardless of whether your straight or gay and your attempt to rationalize the difference makes me think you may be homophobic.
BTW..don't confuse paying for strippers with sex acts. I know the closest you have been to a women is a naked stripper but take it from the rest of us on the boards, naked strippers in your close proximity does not equal having sex.