gays dont need to get married to be gay
  
  Sooooo true.  Thing is where do Xians come one thinking they have a monopoly on marriage ? Customs for man and women exsisted long before this regilion. All I am saying is no regilion has a say on marriage. You can as an Xian decide to marry under god, but that does not mean Pagens, Buddists, Hindus, Athiests ect do the same thing the same way.  I think what the gays want is the same  [color:"yellow"]  civil marriage rights to pass on wealth and pensions ect [/color] . WHere does any Xian [ I'm a Athiest ] get off telling people who can marry.